We all have our insecurities.
We are living in a society where everyone wears a mask to hide their insecurities.
If you continue to wear the mask you will never be comfortable in your own skin.
What you are fearful of is loss of security.
You face the world with your good side but hide your bad side. This gives you security.
“I can’t let anyone know about this”
“I can’t let anyone see me like that”
“I can’t say that”
A part of you sees the light of day and the other part of you stays hidden and becomes your shadow.
Your shadow is the part of you that you choose to not express. As a result a part of you becomes repressed. You have developed a shadow that you never bother to look at and forget it’s even there.
- Become aware of your shadow – the part of you that you are not expressing
- Through introspection observe in a non judgemental way why you are not expressing this side of you.
Now here’s the SECRET OF INSECURITIES.
People don’t fully express themselves because they fear what others will think of them.
“I can’t do that, what will they think of me”
“I would do that, but i’m afraid of what they will say”
Everyone perceives other people through their OWN INSECURITIES.
That’s right!
What you think about someone is actually what you think about yourself.
How you judge another person is actually how you judge yourself.
What you say about another person is actually what you say about yourself.
This is a shock, but it is the truth.
This is why it is so important to NOT judge others.
Being overly judgemental and critical of others is simply choosing NOT to ACCEPT YOURSELF.
I’m sure you have experienced it in your life.
People who judge others the hardest and criticize others the most:
They are the ones with the biggest egos.
They must put others down to make themselves feel better.
They are negative people because they are always looking for flaws and things to not accept.
They have created such an armour made of fear of love.
These people are empty inside.
They are always searching for pleasures because they have not found the joy within themselves.
They have become salty and as result life tastes bitter.
They cannot accept others because they cannot accept themselves.
They are searching for love because they have not found it within themselves.
Acceptance is the first step to self love.
Accepting others is actually accepting yourself.
When you accept yourself for who you are and be at peace with the things you cannot change you discover the most powerful energy in the universe. Unconditional Love.
The power within you is unconditional love. In fact, it is your existence.
Once you discover this, you take back your power and become limitless.
You will be free from the prison of your mind controlled by the thoughts and feelings of other people.
If you missed it, what I am teaching you is that it doesn’t matter what other people may think.
I say may because 99% of the time you think people are going to think (insert negative thought about you here) but the reality is they aren’t thinking about that. They are too busy thinking about themselves because people are so egocentric and self absorbed.
I’m teaching you that it doesn’t matter if other people judge you or criticize you because they aren’t judging you. They are judging themselves!
This alone is a huge step to your mental freedom!
This alone liberates you to be fearlessly authentic!
Stop judging other people.
See them as yourself.
Accept yourself unconditionally.
The opposite of acceptance is rejection.
Stop rejecting yourself.
You are simply rejecting love.
You are simply rejecting life.
Express yourself fully.
Life is infinite expressions.
You are life.
Continue your journey within and you will discover your true power!
Until we meet again,
Brand with a Plan
Branding Wizard
Mitch Sanker
